Kamis, 31 Oktober 2013

Should I allow my daughter to travel to India to meet a man for marriage?

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My daughter who is 21 met a man online from India. They have been speaking on line with a web camera for 3 months. They are convinced that they were made for each othe for marriage. He is willing to send money for her to travel to India so they can get a fiance' visa for him to come to the US. I need advice in a hurry as she plans on leaving the end of March.


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Well you are in a situation which most parents face. As you said, she's 21 and an adult and there's nothing you can do but support her which is what you should do since you're her father. If you try to stop her you may end up in more trouble, she may come to resent you if this is something she is really certain of. Children learn from their own mistakes. As far as meeting a person online is concerned; love just happens. To be honest India is not portrayed well in the USA. People will say bad things about another country for obvious reasons (racism). Every 2 years I visit India, I've been there 11 or 12 times now. States like Goa, Bombay, Kerala, Ooty, Maldives and Punjab are some of the coolest places to live in India, the crime rate is just 10%. If she is going to any of these then it is the safest thing to do. A foreign woman can even go out alone at night without having to worry about anything. There is record of only 4-5 foreigners getting raped in the last 10 years mostly due to their own mistakes. India is a very safe place. Since you wrote that that man is sending her money then obviously he's a gentleman because Indians don't spend money that easily even if they want a green card. Also Indians do not divorce their wives, it is a life-long commitment for them. My own daughter has married an Indian man and they are staying in Bombay which is a very developed state that is better than even NY. If you are uncertain about this guy you can ask your daughter to get photocopies of his passport or driver's license. These are the biggest proofs of identity in India,much like a US social security card. If he is an educated man than he is not after a green card. All Indians who immigrate legally and illegally are under graduate educated persons.
You mentioned a fiance visa; they will have to meet in person and have photographs taken in order to show it to the consulate. For him to get a US visa it would be difficult. After 9/11 the US tightened their rules considering this and if he were to be rejected he wouldn't be able to travel to any country for up to 10 years. As somebody said previously, she will need your support; be with her in her happiness. Let her live her life.

Is this is the biggest security arrangement in any sports game ever today in Mohali cricket match?




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3500 security guards.
Anti-Aircraft guns on Stadium.
Bomb squad
Dog squads
Fighter planes arrangement
Bullet proof cabins for VIP
Area is announced as No flying zone.
No camera, mobile, bag, purse is allowed inside stadium.
Special forces commandos
Special assistance vehicles.

I think it is the biggest security arrangement ever in any sport game. Mohali is today looking as a army headquarter.



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That is india pakistan match and also both countries PM watch this match. Security is necessary.




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